• Wife & Husband

  Filed under Poetry
  May 20

   

   

   

   

   BE A REALLY GOOD WIFE…

  Let me tell you the ways to get to his heart

  Delicious food is where you should start

  A really good meal – there’s nothing like it

  Be it steak or biryani, kebabs or fish

  When he returns home from work, greet him at the door

  A really nice smile will please him for sure

  Elegant clothes, make-up, perfume applied

  All these things make for an attractive wife.

  Serve him his meal and do it with style

  The domestic woes can wait for a while.

  Be a good listener – Was his day alright?

  Be ready to give him support and advice

  When he’s home, try to be there for him

  No friend can be more important than him

  If he wants to go out put everything aside

  Let your company be the best thing in life

  Be smiling and cheerful and do make him laugh

  This is one more way of keeping his heart

  Use wisdom and tact when dealing with him

  Nothing can be gained by fighting with him

  If he does say something which you don’t like

  Do give it some thought, perhaps he’s right

  As for his money, do spend it with care

  Remember all the hard work it took to get there

  Be grateful to him in deeds, words and thoughts

  Ingratitude to husbands is disliked by God

  If you do all this, it’ll improve your life

  For marital bliss makes this world Paradise

  And think of the reward there is in the Next

  It’ll motivate you into doing your best.

  BE A REALLY GOOD HUSBAND…

  For a woman, a good husband is the best thing in life

  This very world can become Paradise

  What are the things he should do and not do

  Keep on reading and I will tell you

  Be generous with money, there’s no doubting this

  It’s an important ingredient of marital bliss

  Spending on family is rewarded by God

  If done with the intention of pleasing the Lord

  He should treat his wife well, express his love

  Appreciate her for all that she does

  When he comes home from work, greet her and smile

  Realise that household chores is no easy life

  He should share in the housework, lend her a hand

  Be patient with her, sometimes say “Thanks’

  A compliment or two also goes a long way

  ‘I just loved the food you cooked today.”

  Avoid scolding her and in fact, he should try

  To not say things that will make her cry

  A woman is sensitive – it’s the emotions in her

  That makes her so loving, and a fine nurturer

  If she should err, rather than shout

  Explain to her gently what it’s all about

  As for important decisions in life

  He should take them after consulting his wife

  She is after all, his partner and friend

  Happily together should their life be spent

  It’s a great opportunity, not to be lost

  Why go for conflict when life is so short

  I urge you my friend, take my advice

  Be kind, patient, generous, enjoy Paradise.

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

   

  Missed opportunities will surely be a source of great regret

  Not only in this very world, but also in the next

  Man will say “ Oh woe to me! Why on earth was I

  So careless in letting such good chances pass me by?”

  That will surely be the time when every deed will count

  And wealth, power, fame – such things, will be of no account

  Except if men had used them in the service of their God

  And to please Him alone, seeking closeness to their Lord

  So let’s all learn the word

   

   

   

  ‘Ibadah

  and what its all about

  The acts of worship that in the Afterlife will really count

  It’s an all-encompassing term, more than the ritual acts

  Everything that’s done to please our God,

   

   

   

  ‘Ibadah

  is just that

  This includes giving people the rights we owe to them

  It’s money, time, attention, even supplicating for them

  Yes, time is that resource, once gone it can’t come back

  So wasting precious time in life will really make you sad.

  Use the time you have on earth- save up for Afterlife

  Prayer,

   

   

   

  dhikr, sadaqa

  , fast, there’s so much you can find

  Do work smart, investigate and get to know those times

  In which the

   

   

   

  Quran and Hadith

  tell us rewards are multiplied,

  Tahajjud

   

   

   

  is a prayer at a time when people sleep

  It’ll bring you close to God and just see how good you’ll feel

  Friday is the Lord of days, on it the world will end

  Pray, supplicate and send

   

   

   

  darud

  , give it its due respect

  Zilhajj

   

   

   

  and Muharram

  ’s first ten days are ideal for good deeds

  Ramadan

   

   

   

  and its last ten days, their excellence you can’t beat

  Shawwal’s six fasts with Ramadan’s like fasting all year round

  13

   

   

   

  th 14th and 15th

  is like fasting all month round

  The nights of

   

   

   

  Qadar and Mai‘raj

  , Mondays and Thursdays

  Don’t miss these opportunities to get your sins erased

  The

   

   

   

  dhikr

  s our Prophet (SAW) taught us, do constantly recite

  It’s another way of earning reward at every place and time

  The

   

   

   

  du‘as

  for different occasions, on learning them be keen

  And just make saying

   

   

   

  Bismillah

  , a part of your routine

   

  

  

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